If we honor our soul contracts and thus go through life, if a marriage or relationship is not lasting, it does not mean that it is a failure. I am not a lawyer, but I guess in most countries there are legal procedures where people can change their name if they wish. In some countries, this might be easier than in others. If one spouse legally changed the surname to match the name of the other spouse, this would obviously not have the effect of having the marriage recognized as a legal marriage. Physical marriage is also worth every moment. It is sacred to associate him deeply with another person. I am a mother of 3 children, currently in an “unmarried” relationship with my spouse for more than 25 years. For the first 10 years of our relationship, I very much wished for a wedding. I wanted our relationship to be legal. Over time, I gave up on that idea. He considers me his wife, and I consider him my husband.
Although he believes in God, he is not devoted. So I sought the advice of an elder in our community. After revealing my concerns, was I told to leave him? That I was living in disorder. It bothered me. For weeks. My heart told me something else. So I called him (the eldest in the Church) and asked, “What did God consecrate in Scripture as marriage?” He quoted a scripture, the law of Moses. And Paul`s writings. In principle, a ceremony and/or government autonomy. I then argued (not disrespectfully) what method did God then use for Adam and Eve? We debated for some time without determination. As soon as I hung up the phone, I heard the Lord say, “Niether, you are not wrong, and you were not right. Niether was wrong, and he wasn`t right.
For God accepts all three. But God is spirit and the law of the Spirit is standing. “Be fertile and multiply.” “Let no one tear apart what brings God together.” “For the spirit directed to the flesh is death, but the spirit which is directed to the Spirit is life and peace, because the Spirit which is directed to the flesh is hostile to God; For it is not subject to the law of God.” The spiritual fruits are love, peace, mercy, truth, faith… Then I heard, because God accepts all three! If you accept this treaty, your angels and leaders will do everything in their power to make sure you connect with the partner. It`s a strong train. If you are an old soul and you are mentally awake, you will recognize the person when they enter your phase of your life.